School Smackdown
So the debate over here is public or private school for Mr. Personality. As extra money is a little hard to come by over here, it is quite a fractious issue.
I confess that I might be a bit of a school snob, having been sent to private school for my entire 1-12 career. I did attend a public kindergarten, which I don't really remember. My only concrete memory is that I jumped rope by myself to 100, and the teacher didn't really seem to care when I told her. I think my feelings were hurt.
Perhaps that event has colored my view of public schools. I tend to have this vision of the school board snapping their collective fingers and changing the curriculum on the slightest of whims. Of bullies roaming free in the hallways, shaking people down for vending machine money. Of cafeteria ladies with hair nets and stained aprons glopping mystery food onto student's plates. As well as huge classes where the students are faceless entities.
I should know better since my sister is a public school teacher, and a fine one at that. She tells me that public schools are better than private. But then bitches about all the testing and how she is powerless to fail students that deserve to flunk, so it is a bit of a mixed message to say the least.
Of course, Hubba-hubba is on the side of a public school. He tells me that is part of why we like this area, since the public schools are excellent. He feels that a smart kid will succeed no matter what, that it mostly depends on parent involvement. And, he was quick to point out the other night that a finance book he read said that you were better off investing the money you would have spent on private schools, using the proceeds for a college fund.
To me, private schools mean more control over what is being taught. More participation in a smaller, more creative learning environment. When I attended my all girl's high school, everybody knew everybody, and I kind of like that idea. And forget about that crap known as the No Child Left Behind Act. I almost don't want to send Mr. Personality to public school just to defy this Administration and its supposed goals for taxpayer supported education.
I am torn. I would like to think that Mr. Personality, being the bright child that he is, would bloom where ever he was planted. But then the other side of me thinks, don't I care as much about my child as my parents did for me? What better way to say you value education than to pay money out of your pocket for it?
Thank goodness I have over a year to decide.
Otherwise, I just might find myself cracking the books out right here on the kitchen table and becoming Professor Gina.
I confess that I might be a bit of a school snob, having been sent to private school for my entire 1-12 career. I did attend a public kindergarten, which I don't really remember. My only concrete memory is that I jumped rope by myself to 100, and the teacher didn't really seem to care when I told her. I think my feelings were hurt.
Perhaps that event has colored my view of public schools. I tend to have this vision of the school board snapping their collective fingers and changing the curriculum on the slightest of whims. Of bullies roaming free in the hallways, shaking people down for vending machine money. Of cafeteria ladies with hair nets and stained aprons glopping mystery food onto student's plates. As well as huge classes where the students are faceless entities.
I should know better since my sister is a public school teacher, and a fine one at that. She tells me that public schools are better than private. But then bitches about all the testing and how she is powerless to fail students that deserve to flunk, so it is a bit of a mixed message to say the least.
Of course, Hubba-hubba is on the side of a public school. He tells me that is part of why we like this area, since the public schools are excellent. He feels that a smart kid will succeed no matter what, that it mostly depends on parent involvement. And, he was quick to point out the other night that a finance book he read said that you were better off investing the money you would have spent on private schools, using the proceeds for a college fund.
To me, private schools mean more control over what is being taught. More participation in a smaller, more creative learning environment. When I attended my all girl's high school, everybody knew everybody, and I kind of like that idea. And forget about that crap known as the No Child Left Behind Act. I almost don't want to send Mr. Personality to public school just to defy this Administration and its supposed goals for taxpayer supported education.
I am torn. I would like to think that Mr. Personality, being the bright child that he is, would bloom where ever he was planted. But then the other side of me thinks, don't I care as much about my child as my parents did for me? What better way to say you value education than to pay money out of your pocket for it?
Thank goodness I have over a year to decide.
Otherwise, I just might find myself cracking the books out right here on the kitchen table and becoming Professor Gina.
Comments
Rebecca is another story and if I could afford private school, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Some of it is Rebecca, of course, but much of it is a system that's forced into cramming for tests and that evil NCLB.
I don't know. We're in a lower income, largely Hispanic city and the schools are trying hard under poor conditions. Yours is probably much different. As you said, you've got time to check out both options.
I have to make the decision now...I have no idea what to do!
Good luck to you! I'm so happy you more time to make the decision!
I think we landed at trying public school for a few years at the elementary level where the schools are smaller, and the stakes are lower. With the understanding that we reserve the right to yank in a heartbeat if things go wrong.
I even briefly debated homeschoolong, and then poured some cold water over my head to bring me to my senses.
Good luck!!!
Jeff and I live in a town whose school district is among best in our region, so we will be sending them to the public school. I can't imagine paying our exorbitant property taxes AND tuition!
Good luck making your decision.
Our kids started out in private schools, the oldest K-8, the younger K-5. We put them in public school when we moved from the city to the county and the timing was perfect for the older to start high school and the younger, middle school. The transition was pretty smooth, since all the kids at that level were basically starting at a new school as well. It's worked out for us.
I disagree with chichimama on one point. I think the stakes are higher when the kids are younger, not older. If a kid doesn't have a good start in school, public or private, it makes it a lot harder when they get older. Those first few years set the tone for their future education, in my opinion.
K-6 94 students.
Rural School.
Love it.
I agree with dad I think....
And parent involvement is HUGE all the way through.
Do you know that studies indicate that boys are not typically ready for a structured classroom until about 8 (results may vary), so a tolerant fun loving and patient teacher is essential.
Any child who has to learn a second language has it harder than the kids for whom English was their first. We do have a large Hispanic population, also several Asian groups and the school is trying hard to cope with ESL while teaching in overcrowded classrooms with insufficient funding.
We haven't yet been reduced to fundraisers for teachers' salaries but we certainly have them for anything out of the ordinary (like the occasional field trip or party).
Granny, I didn't think your comment was racist...it is a fact of life that when teachers have to spend a lot of class time dealing with language barriers, the amount of other learning that occurs is reduced.
She said it best, so I am just going to nod my head.
That's one reason The Boy attended private school K-7. Plus we wanted to go the Montessori route because we thought he would do well in such an environment. For him, it was the right decision and well worth the financial strain.
I also think parental involvement is vital no matter what type of school your child attends.
Suzanne
I know for some people it isn't an option, and then you have to go with what's best for your child as an individual. What are the strengths and weaknesses for each available school? My sons did start off at a small CofE school in the UK (and no, that's not a private school - most primary schools there have a church link) that had only 225 children and an excellent reputation for music. Mostly they were happy there as it suited their personalities - but after a couple of years of home education they'd never return to school. Eight years on from our start in home education, they're mature young men with quite different interests and goals, who are very, very thankful that they didn't have to suffer the horrors of high school.